Chapter 1: Understanding Unattractiveness

In my early twenties, I reached a point where I was utterly done with dating. After enduring multiple betrayals from my boyfriend, I resolved to embrace a life of solitude and celibacy. However, the men in my life had different plans.

My closest male friend expressed his feelings for me after a few drinks, while my eye doctor, heartbroken from his wife’s departure, asked me out. To top it off, my friend's boyfriend tried to flirt by commenting on my physique in a rather crude manner. I was expected to feel flattered by this attention, but instead, I longed for invisibility.

If you find yourself wanting a break from male attention, consider the following insights. While I don’t personally agree with these assertions, various scientific studies indicate traits that many men find unattractive. You should always prioritize your own comfort, but if you’re curious to see how to potentially deter male interest, keep reading.

Remember, these traits won’t apply to every man, as individual preferences vary. However, if you're interested in testing the waters of attraction, here are five traits backed by research:

1. Heavy Makeup Application

   Contrary to popular belief, research shows that men are more attracted to women who wear little to no makeup. If you want to repel interest, feel free to embrace bold cosmetic choices—think glittery eyes, vivid lip colors, and thick foundation—almost like a theatrical disguise.

2. Neglecting Personal Grooming

   While some cultures celebrate natural body hair, many Western societies associate hairlessness with cleanliness and femininity. Studies suggest that body hair on women can evoke disgust, making a lack of grooming an effective way to maintain distance from potential suitors. So, feel free to flaunt your natural look in those cute summer outfits.

3. Adopting an Alternative Style

   If the conventional beauty standard is tall, slender models, consider adopting an edgy, unconventional appearance. A shaved head, multiple piercings, and oversized clothing can be a deterrent to men who prefer traditional looks.

4. Celebrating Your Body Type

   Research indicates that women with a BMI between 16 and 19% are often deemed most attractive. However, it’s crucial to prioritize health over societal expectations. Embrace your natural shape, whether it’s a bit more curvy or not, and focus on what makes you feel good.

5. Displaying Unhappiness

   Studies reveal that women who exhibit happiness or smile tend to be seen as more attractive. Thus, if you wish to deter attention, consider adopting a more serious demeanor. Complaining about life's challenges or maintaining a neutral expression can help keep people at bay.

These points can serve as useful strategies for those periods when you crave a break from the dating scene. While you may not be able to avoid all male interaction, you might find these tactics help create some space.

The first video, titled 7 Things Men Do That Make Them Less Attractive (According To Science), delves into behaviors that may reduce a man's attractiveness in the eyes of women.

The second video, Men Are Ridiculously Attracted to Women Who Have These 4 Habits, discusses traits that can enhance a woman's appeal from a male perspective.