Chapter 1: The Futility of Revenge

Revenge is often romanticized, depicted as a satisfying resolution to betrayal. However, the reality is much different. There are countless outrageous revenge tales circulating online, where individuals go to great lengths to settle scores with those who have wronged them—often, these offenders are close friends or family members.

When I come across these stories, I can't help but think: "Is it really worth it? Some individuals simply aren't deserving of such an effort!"

I understand the rationale behind wanting revenge. In specific situations, I can fully justify the urge to retaliate. If someone were to harm my loved ones, I wouldn't be turning to prayer for divine intervention. That said, I firmly believe that betrayal is never a justified reason for revenge.

While some may disagree with my perspective, this is how I feel. Betrayal typically comes from those we once trusted and cared about deeply, which makes seeking revenge in these cases particularly complex. I contend that pursuing revenge reveals more about your feelings and the nature of your love for the betrayer.

When someone you love betrays you, the sorrow from that betrayal often overshadows any anger you might feel. Their actions demonstrate that they did not reciprocate your love or meet your expectations. Ultimately, that realization becomes more significant than any desire for revenge.

Over time, the initial sadness can transform into indifference, and the person who betrayed you fades into irrelevance in your life. For me, this indifference is the most potent form of revenge against betrayal.

In my significant relationships, I invest wholeheartedly. However, when betrayal occurs, that person loses all my affection. They say we often hurt those we care about, which is true, but such hurt is typically unintentional. Love is reciprocal; our actions profoundly affect one another.

In contrast, betrayal is a deliberate act. Therefore, expending further emotions—such as anger or hatred—on the betrayer is a losing battle. Showing indifference instead is a testament to the pain they caused you, as well as the depth of your love for them, which is now dwindling.

From personal experience, I have faced betrayal both from romantic partners and friends. Although these relationships differ in nature, the sense of betrayal feels the same because I loved each of them deeply.

Even when anger surged within me, I found it challenging to feel any animosity or wish harm upon them. They simply weren't worth the emotional investment. Thus, I opted for what I believe to be the cruelest response: I chose to move on without seeking revenge, treating them as if they never existed.

Years have passed, and I still receive calls from unknown numbers on my unchanged phone line. I never answer because I know who’s trying to reach me. I refuse to extend forgiveness for betrayal because that requires love, and by that point, love is no longer an option.

I cannot love someone who does not reciprocate my feelings. Individuals are special not merely because of who they are, but because of the love I hold for them.

You may label me arrogant, condescending, or even cruel, and I accept those titles. This is my truth, and I cannot alter who I am.

The first video, titled "Sometimes It's NOT Worth the Views," explores the idea that not all responses to betrayal are worth pursuing, emphasizing the futility of revenge.

Chapter 2: The Weight of Betrayal

In this chapter, I delve deeper into the emotional ramifications of betrayal.

The second video, "Colbie Caillat - Worth It (Official Music Video)," reflects on the themes of love and worthiness, connecting to the emotional journey through betrayal and healing.