Your Systems Are the Problem

Why did I feel compelled to buy a dozen self-help programs? It was simply my programming. As James Clear notes, “You do not rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems.” Publishers and course creators often prioritize ongoing consumption over genuine problem-solving. They aim to keep you in a cycle of searching for the next life hack rather than encouraging real progress.

As a result, you might rush through a course without applying its lessons, and then wonder why your life remains unchanged. Here’s the truth: it’s not your fault! The system is structured for you to stumble, keeping you in a perpetual search for new strategies. The key to success lies in a simple mindset shift that allows you to leverage the courses and books you already possess.

Identity: The Starting Point

How did I escape the endless cycle of self-improvement? I transformed my self-perception before diving into any course. William James wisely said, “If you want a quality, act as if you already have it.”

Among the twelve courses I purchased that summer, one stood out: The Punchy Books Accelerator by Matt Rudnitsky, which promised to guide aspiring authors in writing and publishing within six months. I completed this course and finished my book in just over five months.

The catalyst? Matt provided a copy of his book, "You Are An Author," with the course. During the first week, he encouraged us to read it before starting the coursework. As a teacher, I respect the guidance of fellow educators, so I followed his advice. Reading the book convinced me that I was indeed an author. This shift in identity was pivotal; once I embraced this new self-image, I simply followed the step-by-step instructions to complete my book.

Stop Searching for Quick Fixes

James Clear asserts, “Identity change is the North Star of habit change.” Another key insight is that all self-improvement resources have proven effective for their creators. If you haven’t seen the same success, it’s likely because you haven’t changed your self-identity.

You may not see yourself as someone capable of transformation, which hinders your progress. James Clear emphasizes that the first step is not about the specifics of what or how, but about understanding who you want to be. Without this clarity, your pursuit of change is directionless.

So, instead of fixating on the “what” or “how,” ask yourself, “Who do I want to become?” Engage with the course or book that offers actionable steps to help you inch closer to that identity. The focus should be on personal growth rather than superficial hacks.

Final Reflections

As I browse through Medium, I often encounter articles touting ambitious goals like reading fifty-two books in a year or writing multiple articles daily. However, I choose not to pursue those lofty targets. Instead, I began with a clear vision of who I wanted to be: a great teacher, writer, and speaker.

Now, I’m committed to cultivating small, daily habits that contribute to my growth, moving one percent closer to the individual I aspire to become. The best part? I don’t need to invest in new resources. I can revisit the books and courses I’ve previously acquired, identify simple strategies to incorporate into my routine, and take steady steps toward my envisioned self. Starting with a focus on “who” makes all the difference.